“Everybody wants to be rich.
But almost none of us want to persevere to attain that goal.”
I was born from a poor family. But I have a dream, I want to earn enough money to buy the necessary things, for my family to live a comfortable life. Don’t get me wrong, for me, a comfortable life is totally different from a luxurious life. I want to earn money not because I want my neighbors to feel insecure. I want to make them feel inspired, because they know that our family is just poor but because of our determination to change our social status in life, we have progressed. I want to make them think that nothing is impossible, that not all people who were born poor will live and die in poverty. We can be the best that we can be as long as we trust ourselves and make our dreams come into reality. But from what I am observing, it is turning out to be the opposite of what I want it to be.
As what I have learned from my history class, one of the things we have acquired when we were colonized was “crab mentality.” Crab mentality is when we don’t want somebody to become better than us and so, what we are doing is to put them down by saying discouraging words and other stuffs to them.
Sometimes, even some of our relatives have this kind of mentality. It is just sad to think that our saying which is “Blood is thicker than water” becomes “Money weighs more than kin.”
What I think of this? Well, we just have to be industrious and patient to attain our goal and find a work which will make us earn enough money that wouldn’t make us feel insecure about what our neighbors have. Another thing is that eradicate the feeling of envy and insecurity within your emotions. Insecurity is really a toxic, you know as what others say, “Insecurity kills.”